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*tressed247
writes:I like this guy right, but whenever he want to hang out it's when nobody is around or just to have sex and let it be confidential. I want our relationship to be out in the open, and I feel like he is hiding me from his friends. But, i reallly LOVE him. What do I dO? I don't want to tell him i love him because i think that will scare him away. Reply to this Question
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reader, Stressed247 +, writes (14 April 2008):
Stressed247 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ahhh thank you so much for the help! What I'm going to do is get a bunch of his friends to go to the movies without telling him one night. and without him knowing that they are going..i'm going to ask him if he wants to go to the movies with me. When we all show up and he sees his friends, i'll see what he acts like :) i'll keep you all posted. thanks for the help, i greatly appriciate it!!
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reader, IamLily  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 I think, the guy is shy! Though love has to come out one day. You discuss the matter with him. And ask him, why is he hiding this affair? Surely, he will either tell you truth or make lame excuses. If you sense any lame excuse, better say Good Bye, unless you just want to sleep with him.LilySee me at http://www.howtowin.in/index.html also.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 April 2008):
He's using you for sex.
If he wanted you to be his real girlfriend then he would treat you like a real girlfriend.
Go up to him when he's with his friends and kiss him. See what he does.
If he doesn't act like he wants you to kiss him then never speak to him again.
Save yourself for someone who treats you like his queen, not his slut.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): From an outsider it seems he is just using you for sex, I'm sorry but it does,Women want to be romanced, you obviously think a lot of him and of course you would want to show your relationship off to the world - but the fact that he doen't screams volumes to me. I would give him an ultimatum - maybe stay in one night and go out another - okay it doesn't have to be a meet the parents thing but a trip to the cinema or just for a walk?? It should be somewhere of your choice too.You have to be strong and not always available and do more things with your friends.. he should be thinking wow my girl is really cool i hope she wants to see me tonight, i want people to know i am with her???If it continues i would dump him - tell him he is absolutely boring and you want nothing more to do with him.
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