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Should I stay or should I go?

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Question - (9 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2010)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I recently wrote about finding condoms in mine and my bf's car and how he bought them for us and forgot them there. I also mentioned texts between him and some girls were, well lets say he crossed the line.(8 mnths ago)

Well what if I do get the strength to leave but I am wrong. What if I leave our almost 4yr relationship and move out. Lose all my hopes for us and he was telling the truth.

What if he is telling the truth about the condoms and I lose everything?

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A male reader, lemieux United States +, writes (9 February 2010):

More details please...Condoms...was the box open? If not, don't make your move yet...you might not need to. If yes...there's your answer. If he cheats he'll give you more clues. If he doesn't, he'll give you more clues again hahahaha. What you need is clear stuff not the confused posting like the one you just put...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2010):

If it had just been the condoms, I would say maybe you could stay. But there have also been the texts as well. All right, they were 8 months ago. But it seems to me there are a few issues here. I think in truth you might be better moving on. Even if he is telling the truth, which to be honest I'm not sure he is, he already had proved that he is not totally trustworthy.

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