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writes:I`ve been in a relationship with someone for 7 months he told me about the other lady that he use to have a relationship with she has 1yr old twins that she said are his they are waiting on dna test result but he is attached to the kids and she sometimes wont let him see them because he is with me. she also comes to his home when she see my car their and start calling me ugly names and try to pick a fight with him he has told her that it was over an that he has move on with me. he also told her that they relationship was over before he met me. I am not afraid of her I just dont want to get myself in any trouble now should I stay in this baby moma drama relationship I do love him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 September 2011):
 IF he stands up to her and he is the bio dad and takes his responsibility towards his children seriously AND protects you from HER craziness (possibly with a court order) then I think it can be done but HE HAS TO BE A MAN about this and protect you and his children.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (29 September 2011):
 I would be cautious about getting attached to someone who has a mess that still needs some cleaning up.
He needs to get a lawyer and get a court order for DNA testing. ESPECIALLY if she has accepted any form of child support towards the children.
If you stay with him, you get to adopt all of the issues that are on that plate.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (29 September 2011):
 No, I don't think you should stay in this relationship. Whether he has feelings for the woman or not, he clearly has unfinished business with her (or she with him). And since she seems to go out of her way to interfere with you both, you're unlikely to have any peace any time soon.
Besides, this drama is a reflection of him and the type of people he chooses to socialize with. Those who have their lives in order and choose friends wisely, generally don't have these problems.
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