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Should I start on the pill in case we do end up having sex?

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Question - (22 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I guess I have a bit of an odd, and to some, perverted question. In a month and a half I will see a friend with whom I had a fling during the summer. I have never had actual sexual intercourse but I have both given and received oral sex. Should I start on the pill in case we do end up having sex? My instinctive answer is "yes!" as a precaution, but I've heard it causes spotting for the first few months and I guess I don't want oral sex to be uncomfortable for the guy. (I don't even know if I want to have sex in the first place, it's just a precaution.. also, I won't want to have sex with only a condom in place).

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A male reader, ady Syrian Arab Republic +, writes (22 January 2007):

ady agony auntit will based on the kind of the realtion you mentioned to hled ;but any how to take all the precuation it will keep you in the safe side

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntYeah, I think that'd be a really sensible thing to do. And also like the other noter I've never had spotting on the pill. Whether you're currently having sex or not I would definitely go on it because it just makes life so much easier and stress free.

CD

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A female reader, Shadow_Addict United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2007):

Shadow_Addict agony auntheya. Spotting is only a side effect that CAN occur and usaully doesn't. I myself am on the pill and i never expeienced spotting. But if you decide to go the pill you can ask the doctor whos prescribing it any questions you may have

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