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writes:hi friends.please help me as i have no one to turn to.and thanks in advance. problem is that i cant see any cruelty being done to anyone or even to me.when i am present at the scene i dont let anyone be cruel to anyone.i just hate rude people.but i am surrounded with everyone rude and cruel.my mom,my brother.though my father used to be rude but by gods grace he has changed.my friends are also crazy wimphs.i wish i wasnt here.people here always expect help from others but never help others.and i having crazy thoughts just go out of the way to help others(i believe that -you never know the person who is asking for help may be god himself.and he is like a cameraman,clicks photos,and the photos should come good)is it wrong for me to think such things?i am going through a very crucial time of education in which i have to score well.but my family members are so self centerd that they leave just half an hour for me to study six different subjects of 92 pages! i get tired out after helping around so much(cause they know my nature that i never refuse to help and keep on giving me loads and loads of work) i am also a human dont they understand.my father doesnt keep well,i cant expect him to help me. i dont understand why i am tortured so much.though reading this wont seem much torturing but over the years these add up.please advice shoud i runaway?i now feel that the oneness which every family member should feel that is breaking up,and every body gets his or her anger out on me.is it bad on their part or i am the wrong one as usual? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): quiet echo be in my shoes and you would know how it is to feel everyone being rude to you.and as for being a martyr,i think you are right to say so without trying to help enough.if you didnt have any thing to say then why did you answer such nonsense?give me solutions not names!i just hate your replies .you are the poorest of the poor in answering.call your self agony aunt,you are agony increase aunt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): thanks for the reply.i already feel well after reading your answer.but one more thing do you think i am mad or immmature?
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reader, sunshine123  +, writes (4 September 2009):
I dont think ur in the wronge, however its time to stand up for yourself. I dont advise you to run away, it will acheieve nothing. I do think you need to sit your family down and open up with them, let them know how your feeling, how down, or stressed you may be... The only way they will attempt to change is if they are aware of how you are feeling.
Try being open, but also start to view things in another light, its ok to say no to people, as you get older im sure this will develop...All in time
Keep your head up hun, remember to keep positive and to primarily stand up for yourself.
All the best!!
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