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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: This may sound really stupid, and i'm probably just making a fool out of myself by asking this, but never mind. There's this boy, that I like quite a lot, and i've talked to him loads outside of school, mainly on facebook but i have talked to him in person quite a few times before, mainly because we go to different schools so it's kind of difficult. But, the thing is, i don't know whether or not he likes me, i don't think he does. I haven't told him directly that i like him, but i've made the odd hint here and there from my friend's advice. Do you think i should tell him that i like him, and then face being humiliated, or carry on talking to him and just see how it goes, or just leave it? Thank you very much for any advice, it means a lot :)
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (21 November 2011):
If he has done nothing at all to show you that he feels the same way, well then don't go straight in telling him you really like him, instead take it slower but with progress. Ask him would he like to meet you for a drink or for some lunch some day, see if he makes the effort, read his body language and get to know him a bit better face to face. Gaze in to his eyes, laugh at his jokes and touch his arm lightly when he is talking to you.
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