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anonymous
writes:A few months back I started talking to my first love. It started off innocent and then got flirty. He told me that he couldn't stop thinking about me and I said the same. We made plans to meet but it didn't work out. Our emails started getting racier and involved pictures, etc. This went on for a while and then he stopped emailing me. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, we are both involved with other people. What should I do?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 November 2011):
 well if it was me I'd want some sort of closure... just stopping emails with no explanation is not comforting but it's one way of ending it.
do you want to be with your current partner or your first love?
if with your current partner, then you chalk it up to "walking down memory lane" and move on...
if you want to be with the first love (even once) then you must at bare minimum tell your current partner...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 November 2011):
 Two possible scenarios:
1. his GF/Wife found out and told him to make a choice. He didn't choose you.
2. He grew a conscience and figured what he was doing is morally wrong and he quit talking to you.
What should YOU do?
Well, focus on your relationship. Fix it if it's "broke" or end it. Starting flirtations relationships online is not the right way to fix a relationship and I think you know it.
What you did wasn't harmless or innocent.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (18 November 2011):
 break up with the person you're involved with because you're not respecting them. first love probably either got caught by his gf or decided he liked her better than you. I would quit this game while you're relatively not invested.
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