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writes:I was seeing this guy over the summer. He was a great guy, so I guess you can say I had a little bit of feelings for him. A few weeks ago I got a call from him, he was suppose to be coming to see me. But he never made it. After going weeks without speaking to him I figured something wasn't right. He's stood me up before, but he always calls to apologize. My best friend just happens to be messing with his cousin. So I have her ask his cousin what's going on with him. Come to find out he's locked up, just as I expected. But his cousin wouldn't give any details. So I use my resources to find out more info. So I find out all I need to know. Now I need to know what to do now. I don't want to write him cause I need to see him asap to know that he's alright. So I decide to go visit him. But one thing that's scaring the crap out of me is what if I make that trip to see him and he denies my visit? I'm going to be so embarrassed and hurt. Please help. I would really appreciate it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
My first question is are you sure you want to take this relationship further. Why exactly is he locked up? Also, he's stood you up before, even though he has apologized. I'd be a bit wary if I were you. Think carefully about this.
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