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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i need helpmy fiance takes and takes and takes from me emotionally and never really gives much back and ever time i tell him how i feel he brings up my past of the mistakes he thinks i made!!!!!!i cant talk to him about my feelings he thinks he does nothing wrong and is the most wonderful man that i have ever had, hes so full of him self what do i do?????????i love him with my heart but his actions can be very hurtfulhe will alway expect something from me for a birthday or christmas but he doesnt get me anything, i dont care how much it cost it's the count and he always wants high priced things and still doesnt think he has to buy me anything for my birthday why is this ????????????
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reader, Ears4tears  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 What a heartless fiance, you deserve so much better. This man will only drag you down. Its the small gestures in life that makes it all the more special,your putting your all in making him happy and getting nothing in return. YOU HAVE NEEDS TO go and find someone one who cares for you enough to forfill them. Best of luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): He might be a sociopath. In any case, he has a sociopathic tendency to manipulate you for his benefit. That is not love. I don't know what it is. But it is not normal. And even if you are "too nice" and too giving, most guys, if they love you won't take advantage of it to such an extent that they wouldn't feel the urge to reciprocate your generosity. And especially give you a gift for christams or your birthday.
This guys weird. He probably has psychological disorders. I would get out now. And if you are one of those types that feels sympathy for guys with issues, please don't. This guy could very well turn around and dump you for somebody else and buy HER presents galore. So take it personally.
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