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writes: My husband lost his sexual desire,several years ago.. We don't know why he says he loves me. Its been more than 4 years now. He is healthy otherwise. He says he loves me and he has no idea why is that.. But i don't know what to do? Should I believe him? or Should I just go? We are only in our 40es. What ,if it's never going to change? How should I make a decision?I don't want to be a victim,of some bad situation.Big step, more than a life changing step. I don't want to be irresponsible, but can I really stay, if sex is gone ,for no apparent reason? I think marriage isn't just friendship. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): When you get a chance I suggest you read a novel called 'Any womens Blues' Erica Jung
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): I assume you have made the effort dressing up and being extra loving?
If so then I am sorry but he won't change after four years. I don't know why this happens to some people because my wife and I still have a very normal sex life after 35 years of marriage. Not as often I admit but we still both have the need every so often.
Sorry to say I know a number of marriages that have broken up because the husband no longer wants any kind of sexual relationship any longer. I suppose it is the same when the wife is no longer interested.
We all have needs so if you want to remain married then dare I say you should look elsewhere for sexual satisfaction. Who could blame you?
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