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anonymous
writes:Can a man rape a woman and not remember? A relative of mine was super drunk with me on a holiday. He wanted to show me how to drink for real. But when my other relative fell asleep in the other room. I felt something wet on my lips. It was his lips. I couldn't open my eyes because I had had way to much for my body size. I had only 2 shots less than him and he is bigger. But I backed away from his kisses and he told me to come towards him. I told him I couldnt kiss him for real, only a family kiss. Later I blacked out, but I woke up to him touching me and then he whispered that he wanted to give me oral sex. I told him no and he acted like he didnt understand me and he did it anyway. Then he told me he wanted to have sex. I went into shock cus I'm a virgin. I yelled at him to stop touching me when I woke up and saw mi underwear was gone. He said he would and that he just wanted to put shorts on me. Later he fingered me in the same bed I was sleepin in with my sister. I was asleep when he did that!Later I told him that I didnt kno if we were still close bec of what happened and he told me not to tell him bec he didnt remember. I told him that he flirted with me but that I was minimizing it. He APOLOGIZED over and over. But he doesnt talk to my fam anymore. He says no one will believe his story. And he says he doesn't remember doing any of what I said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): it really sounds like he planned it, and he definitely raped you. He made sure you were good and drunk. He is just making up an excuse.
No one can do that to someone and not remember.
I would put him in jail.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know that he didnt have "sex" with me..but because he had oral sex with me after I said no, I call it rape. What I want to know is if you think it is possible for someone not to remember doing all of that?xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Only one real way to find out and that is to see a doctor and if you are not a virgin any more then he raped you.It's a terrible situation to be in but you said no and remember saying no so there is no excuse for him.I'm really sorry this happened to you.
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