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writes:Two months ago now, i dated three times with a girl who is four years older than me. I met her at school, about a year ago. We kissed and, to cut a long story short, i fell in love with her.But after that date, wich was quite perfect, she started to ignore me. I've called het a few times in the last four months, but she won't answer or return my calls. She just completely ignores me. I don't know why, but that deeply affects me. Normaly, i would have just moved on to the next girl, but not with her. I feel like shit now. Not returning calls is something that i didn't expect form her. I don't know why she did this. I've really no idea what i did wrong. I really am in love wit her. What should I do now? Is there still hope left?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): I'm not sure that there is still hope, but I think whatever the reason behind her not staying in touch, is down to her, not you, so don't feel that you did something wrong, because you probably haven't.
Sorry to say, but I think she just lost interest. However I think it is very rude not to have contacted you in any way to give an explanation for her behaviour. You may love her, but the feelings aren't mutual, so please try to move on. Beating yourself up about it isn't going to get you anywhere. She's moved on, so you should too.
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