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writes:hello, this is quite a personal question but i really need 2 know. me an my boyfriends have been together for 6 months now an we're really happy. we're 18 and we r both still virgins and are planning to lose our virginities to each other soon.he has recently fingered me twice and when he puts his finger all the way up i can feel the point thats meant to feel nice. but it just feels a kinda weird nice feeling, i like it at first but after its been inside for a few seconds i want him to stop cos i dont really like the feeling anymore and it just gets too much :( so we take it out.whats wrong with me? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (22 June 2009):
 If there is actual pain associated with gentle insertion, then I think you need to be medically examined. Something is wrong, but probably something minor or easily corrected. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): thank you for the advise :)
what other kind of ways of fingering are there tho haha? we are eachothers first sexual partners so we dont have any experience in this area. what else could he try?
and the feeling is half nice and half hurts a bit. i feel like i want him to touch that area for a few seconds but no longer because it starts to hurt even though he's doing it gently. it just gets too much for me. what do i do ? :(
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (21 June 2009):
 There's nothing wrong with you dear. You just don't like the specific way he's fingering you. That's completely fine. Now is actually the time to experiment and figure out what you do and don't like. Everybody likes different kinds of ways to be touched and different kinds of sexual acts. With patient and gentle exploring you can find out what turns you on the most.
In the meantime, I hope that you are practicing safe sex and planning to use condoms. It's always good to protect yourself.
Good luck.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (21 June 2009):
It is rather doubtful that there is anything "wrong" with you. Perhaps you are merely afraid of the pleasurable sensations that result from sexual stimulation. Your inquiry could have included much more information than "kinda weird nice feeling" and why it may become unpleasant after just a few seconds, but it sounds like fear.
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