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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Is what Im doing wrong??Im in love with my ex for starters, he lives somewhere else from me atm but in around 6 months I'll be back to seeing him regularly and if I'm being honest there is a chance we could get back together...we still flirt all the time, miss each other bla but the distance is a no no right now...however we also may not get back together as right now he wants to be alone!But currently I have been asked out by a few people whom Ive turned them all down but there is one guy I like which I'm not sure whats going on between us but is it wrong of me? We make out at the weekends when drinking, Ive stayed over at his flat now 4 times (not had sex with him...yet) we watch movies, play games, talk etc. But at the weekend we got into a convo while drunk and he said he didn't want a relationship and i had said neither do i then we talked about it indepth the day after and he had explained that it was a lie but not because he does want to be in one but with another girl whom he likes (a girl which when he had got out a relationship with his ex decided if this girl becomes single he would tell her he liked her which he did but said he'd wait until a while goes by and she's ready to date and if they both feel the same in time) I know this girl...and funnily enough I havent compared myself to her, irrelevant I know but just noticed haha. Anyways I told him why I'm not wanting one and then said however if a guy comes along and we click and I start feeling for them just as much then fair enough, so I said I was open really but not looking for one.But since then I've stayed over twice and that night we discussed that he kissed me and we made out ALOT in bed and hands were feeling....and when I had asked him why he does this with me he said well I am still single afterall...but he flirts with me alot and at one point compared me to this other girl and texts me first etc.So what do you think? should I stop my relationship with this guy or see where it takes us or what?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 He wants to be with this other girl. He is lonely at the moment and he is waiting for her to want to date him, so he is filling his time by flirting with you and having some fun. Do not look in to this as a potential relationship, because it is not, he has warned you that it is someone else that he likes. For him this is just some company for him and a way to pass the time, if you are cool with that then yes carry on but if you start liking him well then you are going to get hurt. Keep that in mind. If I am honest I think it would be best to step away from him before you get in deep and get hurt.
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