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writes:I have started seeing my tutor at college, I am a mature student so there isnt a big age gap. The problem is i think i have fallen for him but i dont know if he feels the same way. We see each other once a week, usually on a saturday night and spend the night together but then i dont really hear from him all week. I dont know if he feels the same way, he says he is scared because he has been hurt before and dont know what i should do to move the relationship forward. Should i push it or give him more time, we have been seeing each other 2 and a half months, any advice?? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve +, writes (15 March 2007):
 See him without sleeping with him, see if THAT makes a difference. If you are sleeping with him then he's taking advantage of you. Slow things down considerably and see if he's still as interested, I feel as if you're just a release for him, sorry but that's the way I see it.
If he continues to see you even although he knows you won't sleep with him then I'm wrong and for that I apologise but if he doesn't want to see you any more unless it's to sleep with him then dump him as he's only using you.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Girls fall quicker than guys. I think you're reading too much into it. Relax and enjoy your relationship for a little longer before stressing about whether it's going anywhere and whether you have a true future based on love. It's a bit early for him to be making a love declaration anyway. If you both like each other and have fun then that's enough for now. All the other stuff will come later.
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