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Should I pursue it and give him signals back?

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Question - (29 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am 25, a single mum and rescently gone back in to education. I think my teacher fancies me.

He focuses on me in every lesson, he asks me questions through out in front of the class and quietly asks my opinions on things when the rest of the class is distracted. I notice him checking me out sometimes and loads of people have noticed him picking on me too. People in the class come up to me laughing about it, everyone says he likes me. I try not to catch his eye as everythime I do, he smiles and looks away blushing and now when I do look in his eyes I feel this overwealming attraction between us. He is really my type as well and I have started to become atracted to him also. Sometimes I wonder if it's all in my head, then when I walk in to his class it feels real.

I know it's unprofessional, but I can't help but fantasise about it. I really want him and would like to get to know him better. My course finishes in a year and then I'll be off to a different university, should I persue it and give him signals back? or should I just forget it? Am I imagining it? If I wasn't his student and we had met out side of college then I would definately persue it. Is it wrong? We are very simular age.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2009):

He's your teacher and that's it. Until he's not your teacher, tread carefully do you don't get used and he doesnt' get into trouble.

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A female reader, Lola1 Canada +, writes (30 September 2009):

Lola1 agony auntI don't know about the issues he may face being involved with a student regardless of age.

However, if a relationship will not lead to being fired or disciplined, send a few signals back. ;-)

Enjoy and good luck!

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