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41-50,
*len
writes:8yrs ago i fell hook line and sinker for this stunning man he had looks,charm,flash car, lots of friends made me feel like the most amazing woman in the world!! then i found out he had other women on the go he was a PLAYER!! i was broken hearted to say the least! well he has just landed bk in town newly single as am i, seen him out few times he bought me drink chatted i smiled chatted caught up on each others lives n left te bar, this happened for few wks more i seen him more interested he was but i brushed it off.4wks ago i was loving the attention so i agreed on a date he wine's n dine's me,cinema,clubs,gifts makes me feel so special,he hasnt changed a bit i havent slept wit him as i know he is a player... should i play this player??
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reader, slen +, writes (22 August 2009):
slen is verified as being by the original poster of the question i have not slept with him and i wont give in either sex has never been a major thing in any of my relationships i'v been in quite a few sexless relationships!! most times its about enjoying friendship, kisses and cuddles!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): ohh man, no you shouldn't play the player that is not right cuz you guys aren't even going out. & you wouldn't want him doing the same things to you even if he dose but still. think "karma" what goes around comes around. no no no not a good idea..& why you messing with a player? if he has the balls to disrespect you then you grab your balls &, tell him to go drop dead somewhere & move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): I don't see how you are playing him. I just see you knowing how he is and still doing all the same things as if you didn't.
My guess is that sooner or later you'll give in and sleep with him. Maybe you'll tell yourself that since you expected him to be a player then you're not really getting played if you bone him . . . ri-i-i-ght.
If he gets you to sleep with him then his game ultimately worked. Don't ever forget that. His goal is the sex, the lying is only a means to an end. If he thinks telling the truth will make the sex happen faster than lying, he'll probably stop lying. But if you screw him, he wins. The rest is just details.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): You shouldn't of been talking to a player anyways! He is a player so apparently he is going to do nothing but play you! He'll prolly try to use you for his sexual pleasure and then kick you to the curb! I'm sorry but you need to leave this guy alone!
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