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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I started chatting to a woman off a dating site, we had one date I was very attracted to her,she was funny, fit and I thought it was mutual.I asked her out a 2nd time she said no, I kept in touch and asked her again 2 weeks later she said yes ok.I went to her place hoping for sex I guess,but she thought we were going out so I had to take her.Dated again 2 or 3 times and finally had sex on the next date.It was amazing for me but she went cold after and I didnt hear back from her for 2 weeksI didnt give up,asked her to mine and eventually she agreed,she assumed I was cooking her dinner,I wasnt,I had got wine and beer in though.She stopped over as could not drive home but left real early and I have not heard from her for 3 weeks apart from a text saying I was not for her.She is not using the site we met on anymore either.Thing is I do miss her and thought we were starting something,do you think she gave me a real chance and should I persue it or let it go as she blows hot n cold ?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 August 2012):
 I don't think she is blowing hot & cold, she is just not interested. I BET you she picked up on the "wanting sex" and decided you were not a match for her.
The fact that she even left the websites says a lot. She didn't think she got lucky with her matches (that includes you)
And honestly, at your age you OUGHT to know that a guy who keeps asking and asking after being turned down politely is really considered rude. I'm sure you think if you keep pushing she will give.. THAT is no way to begin a relationship.
Let her go, look elsewhere.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (25 August 2012):
 She said you are not for her and isn't texting. I'm sorry you miss her but she's not interested in you for whatever reason. And the fact that she is no longer on the site could mean she met someone else. Nothing else to do but move on. Continuing to pursue her after she said you weren't for her makes you come off as desperate or stalkerish.
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