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writes:how do you know if the guy you had sex with came into you?? we only did it for bout 5 to 7 mintues at the most...and he put it in.. i just dont know if he came or not he told me he didnt but i dont know if he was just lying to me. How will I know if im pregnet with out buying a pregnecy test or going to the doctor because my parents would kill me if i ever asked them to buy me a pregnacy test. Reply to this Question
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reader, Billie Jo  +, writes (30 July 2013):
His thrusts will be fast and urgent and then you will get three or four long deep thrusts as he comes. It feels great but you either need to panic and watch the calender or get yourself on birth control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): You'd know because you might even leak a little bit of his cum afterward, or even alot. Its not like your wetness, it is sticky because Nature made it that way so it would stay inside and coat your uterus.
Let us know what happened and good luck.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Usually after a guy cums inside you, you are much wetter than you were before. Even a bit gushy. But even if he didn't fully cum, he may have spilled just a bit of pre-cum and that can still be enough to get you pregnant. My advise is ask a trusted friend to loan you the money for a home pregnancy test. You're parents don't have to know until it's time to tell them the big news. And either way, you should start using condoms in the future so you don't have to worry about getting pregnant or HIV. Good luck.
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reader, Tremor +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Ah yes, Queeny picked up what I missed - if this was less that three days ago, /definitely/ go and get yourself a morning after pill.
As I said - it's parents vs baby. Which one are you more scared of?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Hi, here's a link that you can use to find a healthcare provider for you.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control-4211.htm
You can find help with getting contraceptive help and also with the 'morning after pill' too. The longer you wait, the less effective the emergency contraceptive pill will be.
Take the aunties advice, and be prepared next time. Also, if you do not want to have sex, you should not feel pressured to do so....
Good luck and please take care of yourself!
PS Why can't you go to the drug store yourself, and not involve your parents?
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Hurry .... hurry... go buy an emergency contraceptive within the 72hours you had unprotected sex.. do this immediately... go to the nearest pharmacy and buy it... there are a range of them e.g. postinor 2, levonelle etc.. the pharmacist should be able to advice you.. i hope this get's you on time..try using protection next time or ask local family life doctor to assist you on which contraceptive you need to use...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): I'm guessing you aren't really between 18 and 21, because you would know better and wouldn't even consider asking your parents to buy you a pregnancy test. Do you not have any money of your own to go to the druggist and pick one up? Why on earth would you ask your parents to buy something like that for you if you're an adult? If you can't afford a pregnancy test why do you think you can afford a baby? Condoms are cheap, and free even. Babies are not.Find a free or low cost clinic, buy a test, or wait it out and worry every minute. In the future, if you don't want to become pregnant, don't have unprotected sex especially with someone you suspect will lie about it. You have a pregnancy risk regardless of whether he came inside you. There are NO ABSOLUTE signs of pregnancy until months after conception. Any symptom you might experience could just as likely be from anything else, and you might have no symptoms at all. The ONLY way to know is to take a test, following the directions on the box or going to a clinic.
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reader, Tremor +, writes (28 May 2008):
Trust me, you would /know/ if he came inside of you.He'd have had some spasm type movements and then been knackered. Most likely, he'd have been soft when he withdrew. And you would probably leak a little of it afterwards. If he says he didn't, well, he'd be the one to know, yes?However, if you had unprotected sex, realize that you can still get pregnant from pre-cum - this is the fluid that comes from the penis before your partner actually comes, and it contains hundreds of thousands of sperm cells.In the early stages of pregnancy, the only realible ways to know /for sure/ are taking a pregnancy test or visiting your doctor.You just need to ask yourself which is worse - the wrath or your parents, or the possibility of being pregnant?Avoid these issues next time - use a condom.
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