A
female
age
41-50,
*sha
writes: Dear aunts, i have been in a relationship for close to three yrs with a muslim guy, am christian. Two yrs ago he proposed to me but my mum failed to accept it so i postponed the wedding for a few months. when my family finally accepted him, we set a date and had started on the arrangements but he postponed, claiming that he was not ready. for almost a year, he comes up with all sorts of excuses, the latest being that he has cold feet and does not even want to talk about it anymore.I suspected that he may have got someone else but he says he loves me and he comes to my family occasions so am not so sure. am at the end of my rope. Should i move on because I feel am wasting my time on a relationship that is going no where, and yet am getting older.... please advise.
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reader, Rikki +, writes (17 May 2007):
Hi Asha
The way he is behaving, i think he dont want to continue. Talk to him finally and tell him that u want to decide. He understand then ok or go away....And the best is waiting for u
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