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writes:i am 14 years old and lately i have been rrly horny and i finger my self and i force my self to pee in bed and i hump pillows and i dream about makingout and have sex with this guy i like who is 16 is this normal and if not how do i make it stop
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reader, Rtvoll +, writes (30 March 2009):
These feelings are normal. But its best to show a little self control. try thinking of somthing else or try distracing yourself. But i can asure you these feelings are normal many churches will tell you this is wrong but dont let anyone tell you whats wrong or right.
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reader, chihuahua1274 +, writes (28 May 2008):
 i am 12 and have the same feels i almost did it but turned him down i wrpa my legs around pillows and am often fingering myself dont worry it must be normal just dopnt do it plzz
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): you are perfectly normal. as long as you can clean up the mess after your done.
fingering yourself -wrapping your legs tight around pillows-thinking of him- is a good way to explore your fantasies without commiting to doing the real thing.
i would wait until your at least 16 to consider having any kind of real sex; then you can know what the consequences will be when you do
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 There is no such thing as "normal". The best you can hope for is life you life in a way that makes you happy that also allows you to function in our society.
If your feelings ain't getting in the way of your school, social life etc etc then there is nothing wrong with it.
I would be careful about the peeing. NOT because there is anything wrong with it in itself but because you are probably still living at home and it might be awkward to explain.
But being horny is what being a teen is all about and it is a LOT safer to masturbate then to have sex. Nobody ever got pregnant of their own fingers.
If you can function "properly" (you are not skipping class to masturbate or forgo going out for solo play) then there is nothing wrong with you.
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 it perfectly normal for you to do all of this
well except peeing the bed maby thats a bit robng and you should try and stop
but you are young and experimenting thats all most girls do it they just dont say yes to it because its embarrisng
yuo needm to not be embaressd and no what your doing is fine
good luck xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Yeah honey, there's no need to worry, because it is all completely normal. It's your hormones kicking in, and you're experimenting with sexuality and sex in general. But please, don't go having sex or anything just yet! Really, wait and it will be better for you.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (25 May 2008):
 Obviously, I'm no teen-aged girl, but I will say everything you described is completely normal for an adolescent...
...but the peeing in bed gives me pause. Granted, as you get older, you may discover specific "kinks" or "fetishes" that people have that are sexually oriented. I'm guessing that you've found one and it turns you on in a sexual way. For me personally, that doesn't do a thing for me, but if it's something that turns you on, then great -- more power to you!
So, rest assured, you're completely normal!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): first I'd like to say it is completely natural that @ 14 u become aroused don't fell funny or weired about touching yourslf... its a natural thing & everbody does it... however you are far too young to be having sex.... there is a risk of pregnancy or worst...HIV... OR ALOT OF OTHER SERIOUS ILLNESSES...please use a condom if you must! don't ruin yourself you have your whole life ahead of you... good luck!...
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