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anonymous
writes:Broke up with on and off again guy. He has a past as a player and I am done with him coz he flirted with other girls only a day after we were having a mini break. I called him to say I think we need time apart, not talking, or texting at all for a month to get over the infatuation we have for each other. Its been hard to pull myself away, but he has asked to see me tomorro to say goodbye in person.Should I go? Im scared he will try to drag me back into liking him. The problem is I do still like him, I love his personality I just cant be romantically attached to him due to his disrespectful actions. With this in mind I had hoped to salvage a friendship of some kind later on in the year. Should I see him for 30min tomorro to end this in person or not?And do u think we can salvage a friendship if we cut ties for a while to get these romantic feelings out of our system. Or is it goodbye for good?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2011):
 Once there is romantic feelings involved I will be honest it is very hard to get back to the just friends stage. Even after some time apart. You need to be a strong person in order for this to happen. Because once a friendship is established most of the time those romantic feelings come back. I guess it is up to you now if you want to see him to say goodbye or not. But personally if you don't feel strong enough and feel you will be talked back in to it, well then maybe it is not the best of ideas. However if you have enough strength to say no to him then go for it and say goodbye.
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