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writes:I am 24 years old, So I met this guy at a club last night I was with one of my girlfriends, so he was with one of his friend, anyways that club was quite empty, it was just four of us, he started a conversation and my friend was sitting next to him, and all of us really hit it off like we were old friends or something but although my friend was sitting in between he kept looking at me, like when he would talk he would look like directly into my eyes and talk lol, and my friend noticed that when we went to the washroom she was like oh may you should sit next to him, which I didnt. then he suggested we go to a cafe, but I said some other time and we decided to meet up the next day for lunch but we didnt go my friend flaked (well she seemed so keen the previous night and the next day didnt seem interested at all) so I told him we can't make it, and he suggested we could meet up later at a place of my choice and I told him I'll let him know, he hasn't texted after, neither have I said anything!do you think I should just go with him to a cafe or something? but without his friend since my friend isn't coming too? or should I just avoid this guy? I'm confused..I rarely meet people I have fun with..just let me know..thanks
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 August 2012):
 Why not?
You can always make it a short "date" such as coffee? And then if it feels awkward then excuse yourself after a little while and leave.
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reader, ImmortalPrincess +, writes (15 August 2012):
 I think if you're interested in him, I can see know reason why you shouldn't meet up with him, on your own. If you keep canceling because your fiend keeps flaking out on you, then he might loose interest.
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