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writes:I have a problemI recently got out of a relationship with a guy I'd been seeing for a few months, we were always on and off, but somehow no matter who ended it and for what reason we seemed to slowly get back together, without even saying we were or why.I ended it with him at the start of January, and I was pretty certain that that would be the end for ever. He hadn't always treated me well, saying he never wanted anything too serious, basically being around when it suited him, so for these reasons we both agreed it just wasnt ever going to work.Now a month later, he's back sending me sugestive emails, saying he misses me and wants to come see me. I don't know what to do because although a part of me wants to see him again, coz he'll always mean something, I know that it won't just be meeting up for a chat. I feel like he isn't letting me move on. I know that he misses me and likes having me around, even if that doesn't mean he wants to be with me properly but I can't just be like that without totally falling for him.I need help on what to do. I'm considering meeting up with him, just one last time, before I make it clear that I cant take it but then I don't know if I could let it be just the onceI need help?
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reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (4 February 2008):
 You need to ask yourself what it is you want from this guy. You say he is only coming back when it suits him, this isn't fair to you as he is using you. If you can't meet him as friends and you think it will lead to something different then perhaps you should not see him for a while longer. Try to find a nice guy that does want to be in a loving relationship, if that's what you want, and who wont treat you as this guy has done. Then you can meet him without the worry of one thing leading to another because you will be faithful to your own guy.Hope this helps.
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