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Should I make the next move on him?

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Question - (5 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hiya,

im 16 and have become really close to this male mate of mine last year we had massive fall outs and arguments but we have dealt with them and have now recently become really close mates, and more i think. We spend loads of time at school together but even though we both say that we are just close mates others think its obvious that we arent since we flirt a lot. I really like him and i think he likes me because he told one of my friends he did but didnt want to ruin our friendship. He always finds excuses to take me away from our group of friends for a bit at break times and we end up play fighting alot but in a flirty way, we cant keep our hands off eachother. Loads of people have been askin us if we are going out and others say we look cute together and question why we arent going out. I dont know if he likes me though becaus e a girl recently asked him out and he sed yes even though i make it obvious that i like him more than a ftreind he cant believe that i do. He doesnt seem interested in this other girl that he is going out with since they hardly ever meet and talk and she has even admitted that she doesnt know why shes still with him. He confuses me because of the things he does like he remembers little things like the necklace i wear and stuff. He also always hugs me and stuff and the other day he moved my hand down to his ass so i couldnt help but squeeze it and he didnt mind. pleese could you help me by giving me your advice and telling me what you think, and if i should make the next move????

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (6 April 2007):

nologo agony auntI think that you should make the next move.

"a girl recently asked him out and he sed yes"

This means that he expects girls to make first moves for whatever his reason is.

However "he doesnt seem interested in this other girl that he is going out with..."

Another side of this may be that in fact he is not that much interested in you too.

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