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writes:I met a girl at a prelash and we got off getting to know each other but she didnt come out that night. Later she added me on facebook and we started talking... 2weeks later i got her number and started talking, she seemed hung up on her ex (that she broke up with 2years ago) so i stopped talking to her for a week or so. When i started again, she hinted she wanted to see a film, i took her out for lunch instead but wasn't sure if it was just friendly or a date. After a great day out, we arranged to meet again, but she still slyly drops her ex into convos about how he doesnt take her places this summer. They still seem to hang out together a lot and she is going to uni in 4weeks miles away from our town. Should I make a move or just stay friends?
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reader, Hailielynn +, writes (4 August 2011):
well if u have feelings for her then try making a move maybe thats what shes waiting for u never know...i just went threw the same thing with a guy i like and now him and i are getting really close to dating....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2011): I'd keep it platonic, to be honest. If her ex remains such a prominent figure in her life, chances are she's still hung up on him. Besides, if she's going to uni so soon and will be far away from where you are now she'll probably be reluctant to start anything new under the circumstances. Focus on being friends and having fun over the rest of the summer (but don't feel obliged to pay for everything!). If she happens to develop feelings for you, take it from there, if not then you haven't lost anything. Good luck and take care :)
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