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30-35,
anonymous
writes:A girl that Ive been dating for a little while and i are planning to go to a convention out of state and hang out and see what their is to see. we have considered having sex for the first time, usually im really nervous about the idea but this time it almost feels right to do. She is probably on of the best girls personality wise i could ever hope to get and is perfect with me compatibility wise, and is cute to boot.She has told me about her past relationships and until i came around she had ended up with some pretty rough ones. She has literally been beaten up so badly that the guy broke her ribs and fractured her skull and all for a pretty lame reason that made little to no sense out of rage. She has never had good sex when she has had it, the guys were really selfish and only cared about themselves. She is really nice and ever since she told me this before we were even dating, ive sort of felt sorry for her, and it makes me sick that some guys could done some of that stuff to her. I feel really comfortable with the idea of having sex with her, even tho it will be my first time. I almost want to do it just for her sake and to show her how much a guy can actually do to make her feel good, and to help her with getting over some of the stress over men that is left from her past relationships.Aunts do you think i should all things considered?
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reader, LallaZine  +, writes (30 July 2009):
 Hey, this aunt from London, England is very impressed with the how aware you are of your girl's feelings. She is lucky to have you and to have found you after having such a tough time before.
If you want to have a sexual relationship with this girl. You're ready, she's ready. Then why not? But...please try to forget the other guys, this is about you and her. I know it's difficult, but this is a clean slate a new start. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.
If this girl is worth it, then go for it. But don't put too much emphasis on sex, it may just happen when the time is right.
Good luck with everything
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reader, rocker_grl_96  +, writes (30 July 2009):
 ok first off i want to say good for you for staying a virgin till now. some 12 year olds i know arent even virgins anymore. but i need to tell you that if you want to show this girl what it's like to really be loved while haveing sex you need to do it out of love and only love, not pity in the least bit. she will be happy just to know that you trully love her. i promise.
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