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anonymous
writes:Hi, I am writing again to put this into more depth so you Aunts can help me decide a bit more if I have the problem or does she? I have become really suspicious of my so called 'female' friend.Last year we used to get on well - until she became close to a guy I was kind of seeing. The two of them pushed me out of their life for a bit, so I fell out with both, because they were obviously isolating me and wanting me out of the way.A couple of months later, me and this girl put our differences aside and made up again. She pretended nothing was going on with the guy anymore (which I believed) and she said she would get him to speak to me...Well, surprise, surprise, he never did and what's worse - the girl rarely keeps in touch with me now either - but still does with him. However, I have also discovered she has now become close to a couple of my other female friends and has befriended one or two of them and asked them about me in the process which I find quite calculating and underhand.When we are on Facebook - she comments on my posts as if we still are friendly - but she never keeps in touch or messages me personally. So it seems to be just a front.We are meant to be all meeting up for a girls night out soon - which we had planned for ages - but the question is - do I carry on pretending we are still friends, when there are obviously issues there or should I follow my instinct and cut her out of my life altogether for peace of mind?Please can you tell me am I just being jealous and suspicious - or are my instincts correct?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2015): Thanks Honeypie - OP here. Yes I intend to - once the night out is over & done with!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 May 2015):
 Change your setting so she can't see your pictures and posts - or simply block/unfriend her.
If you CAN fake through the girl's night out, I'd just block her from checking your page and then unfriend her after.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2015): Thanks for the answers. I am the OP. I just needed reassurance that I'm not overreacting as she can be perfectly pleasant to my face - but obviously avoids messaging me for whatever reasons!
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (14 May 2015):
 She's not acting as a friend should, so you should not seek to keep her as a friend. You can do without people like that in your life.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (14 May 2015):
 Hon, this girl is not a friend. Block her from your FB and have as little contact with her as possible.
Friends don't treat other friends this way.
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