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Should I lie about my age to this older woman?

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Question - (16 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i met this AMAZING girl about a week ago

but theres a little problem,actually it's pretty big

see i found out she was 20 and i know that somewhere along the line she's gonna ask my age

im only 13(i know it's bad but i mean im very tall and i got a deep voice and im pretty mature so she didn't think i was 13)anyway i know that she really likes me and i know i really like her actually i think i love her i really don't know what to do

and i need some help

first thing i wanna know is :should i lie about my age?

second:if i tell her my real age how should i do it?

thanks :]

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A female reader, kelly hunter United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2008):

kelly hunter agony auntwell first ov all tell her the truth that your thirteen trust me lieing about your age isn't a good idea i did it once and the guy i waz talking to flipped when he found out i had lied so just say look i have got something to tell you i am only thirteen she may be a bit put off but it's worth a shot coz she will find out sooner or later the guy i lied to was ok with it once he got used to it tell her the truth.

message me back i would like to know how things go good luck.

kelly.x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008):

I'm sorry but you have to tell her the truth and when she knows, it'll properly be over. BUT you must be honest, she could get into a lot of trouble if anything happened

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (16 August 2008):

kenny agony auntYou have ultimately got to start as you mean to go on, if you start a lie at the start of something then you have got to continue that lie for as long as you know that particular person, and that is extremely hard work. You have got to be upfront and honest and tell her your real age, honesty is the best policy. Just tell her and let the chips fall where they may, and who know's in a couple of years when you are older she may still be single, who knows.

All the best

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008):

You should not lie about your age.That is a very serious factor when you're with someone over 18 in the US.You should tell her your real age and tell her you're sorry for

letting it go this far as it was not appropriate.wish you

the best.x

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A female reader, Emaz help United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2008):

Emaz help agony auntYou should always be honest because if you lie then you can guarantee that your real age will ALWAYS come out and it will make her think that she can't trust you.

But then again if you told her your real age then i'm sorry to say that she probally wont want a 'relationship' or anythink with you because of the age, but then again.........you never know!

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