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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've been infatuated with my principal since the 8th grade. He used the be the Jr high principal but last year the high school principal retired. He got promoted and is now my principal. I'm a senior and I'm 18. I just feel like if I told him how I feel/felt about him I would get over him. In the past I told a guy that I really liked him and within two weeks I was over him. The feelings went anyway and I went on. (Possibly because he wasn't much interested and he had a girlfriend) So I feel a like I should let my principal know. He kinda knows I like him and he's very flirty and he always has been. He is always looking at me and it has it been this way since 8th grade. There is A LOT more that has happened for me to think he finds me attractive. This has filled my attraction. I just want to know if it would be a good idea to let him know how I feel. I graduate soon and I'm just so conflicted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2013): No, Don't tell him. I am glad you are graduating and will be away from him. In my mind, he has no place in education. Boundaries are supposed to be in place for a reason. My worry is that there could be other girls suffering because they have not enjoyed his "flirty" inappropriate behaviour. You will not be the only one, believe me, .....in fact this man makes me feel sick. Move on and enjoy life.
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reader, Dayzee  +, writes (16 March 2013):
If, in fact what you say is true, that this man has been flirting with you or showing any inappropriate interest in you from year 8 that makes him a paedophile, and a criminal. Are there any other young girls at your school that seem to have a crush on him? He is playing with fire and so are you.
You are young so can be excused for your infatuation. He is older enough and holds a position of reponsibllity and does know better.
Get a nice bf your own age, and leave this man alone, especially if he has a wife and children, whose lives you could destroy if this is more than in your mind. OMG haven't you seen any Dr Phil about older men grooming young girls.
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