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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:this is gonna be long so be prepared....I have a boyfriend that i have been dating for 5 months now. i know this sounds really bad but i met him cause he was my ex's best friend and he was on the football team with one of my best friends.I love him with all my heart and he always tells me he loves me but the most he was ever done was hug me. and let me tell you his idea of a hug is putting his arm around my sholder for like 2 seconds. one time afer school he was being picked up by his dad insead of sitting and waiting with me for our buses so he went to hug me and i turned and gave him a full out hug. i thought his dad was gonna lose his mouth cause it dropped so far.(he didnt know about us,i am his first gf, and he was in the car 2 feet away)but now i want him to kiss me, or touch me just so i know that he wants me. I am not saying i dont want to be a virgin anymore. i am detemained to stay a virgin till a am 19 or at least 16.One time i had my friend over, well lets call him bob,i have always liked bob a lot,as more than a friend but anyway, so one day me and bob were hangin out in the basement of my house, cause thats were my room is,we were playing ps2 and messing around on the computer then we went out on my trampoline and after jumping alot we got tired so we rolled around. then i challenged him to try to pin me down and he mostly got me. it was pitch black and all we had for light was some tiki torch's and my family was inside.then we went back in and my mom said that bob was staying the night cause it was already 11(our family's are really close cause we have been bff's since 4th grade)we went to my room and watched family guy on demand while we ate some ice cream. then i want to change into my pj's and i dont care if bob sees me in my bra and underwear so i just changed right there. but as far as i knew he was to busy playing my nintendo DS to even look. then when i was done i went over and stratled him and got really close to him and asked what he was doing. i was whereing a tank top so i was makeing sure to show ALOT of cleavage which is not hard to do with my size 38D boobs. then like 2 seconds later, i could tell he had a boner. that night we almost kissed like 5 times, but never did.now i kinda want to dump my boyfriend and ask bob out....should i? HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PLZ!!!!!!!
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (30 July 2009):
 This is difficult as you are so young, but in all honesty what you are doing to your boyfriend isn't fair. He is only young and may be shy, he may also be wanting to take things slow in giving you kisses and touching you. Put yourself in his shoes, if he was the one flirting with his female friend. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend then end it, becuase it isn't fair him thinking everything is ok. However i wouldn't recommend ending it for someone else. Does ( BOB ) even know you have feelings for him? Or is he just looking for someone to make out with when he has nothing else to do?. You need to consider these things before making any rational desisions, as you could lose everything you have. Think carefully.
Good luck
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (30 July 2009):
This is difficult as you are so young, but in all honesty what you are doing to your boyfriend isn't fair. He is only young and may be shy, he may also be wanting to take things slow in giving you kisses and touching you. Put yourself in his shoes, if he was the one flirting with his female friend. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend then end it, becuase it isn't fair him thinking everything is ok. However i wouldn't recommend ending it for someone else. Does ( BOB ) even know you have feelings for him? Or is he just looking for someone to make out with when he has nothing else to do?. You need to consider these things before making any rational desisions, as you could lose everything you have. Think carefully.
Good luck
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