Should I leave her for good?

A male age 30-35, *randprix writes:

Okay...I posted on her about my girlfriend way back in November... Here's the recap: She kissed another guy and treated me like dirt for two weeks and nearly put an end to our two year relationship. I could have forgiven it but the other guy never really went away. They have long phone conversations and text message each other constantly... I've told her that the only way I can be happy is if she cuts this guy off...but it's always the same thing: she says she told him to buzz off and a few days later they're back to being best buds...I've tried to break up with her several times in the last week because I don't feel like I can ever trust her again, but everytime she begs and cries and I take her back, so my question is two fold: Am I over reacting when they talk to each other? Should I leave her for good?

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