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Do you think I should tell him my feelings?

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Question - (2 February 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *lexisrae writes:

This is a really sticky situation; I was with the guy of my dreams (since 7th grade) for about 5 months and I ended up cheating on him with my ex boyfriend of a year and a half. There was a lot of drama which included a lot of his friends and whatnot. We kept talking on-and-off for about 2 months later until the night of my birthday. I was planning on coming to his apartment to celebrate my birthday, I even talked to him right before I left my house. Once I got into the city he was in, I visited some friends first (which he knew I was doing) and didn't answer my phone calls or texts...ever. He texted me a few weeks later, to see how I was doing. And I haven't talked to him since.

I was his first love and first heartbreak, 2 weeks after my birthday he was dating a girl he had been friends w/ during our break-up. Many people have told me he still loves me, but could never get over the fact that I cheated on him. There hasn't been a day that's gone by that I haven't thought about him, sometimes I think about him all day; I still cry over him and pray for him at night. I have changed completely as a person, and I honestly do think we're meant to be together; there's not enough space here to describe how much I love him. And what's funny is we ended up having class together this semester, so I know God intended it to be that way. Do you think I should tell him about my feelings?

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A male reader, johnc342345 United States +, writes (2 February 2008):

yeap tell him how you feel tell him you messed up cause if you dont do you really want to say to yourself years down the road what would have happened if i did tell him would we be together if you guys are meant to be together he will take you back if you guys arent he wont its tough it hurts but you'll feel better telling him your sorry and how you feel about him

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