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writes:Hi posted a question a few days ago now about wanting advice about a guy i was seeing who relocated. Basically i spoke to him this week on the pc and he logged off !! He hasnt been back on since what gets me is he seems to have taken what happened with us far to sriously all i did was a have a glass to much of wine you would think id tried to stab him or something !!!Now im wondering whether or not i should even bother sending him an instant message when im online too chat . Any advice ?? ive also stopped txting too . I need closure he seems as if hes just dragging the situation on and will speak when he sees fit !! .
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Hi, Yes, the previous advice sounds the best! For some reason, something tells me he was already looking for an out and your glass of wine gave him it. How sad and how hurtful to simply disappear like that. As already said, make your own closure. Good Luck ! Hannah.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Create your own closure, as Emily suggests. Don't wait around for him to explain things to you, that is a waste of your precious time. I mean, what's the point? If you're only going to argue with him about what happened in the past (I missed your previous post on that topic) then you're spinning your wheels.
Just drop him from your friends list, block him on email and move on.
Good luck!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 August 2008):
Well take it that it's over, send him a final email saying goodbye and start moving on.
If he wants it to work then he can reply asking to work things out, but running away like this and leaving you in limbo is just not on.
Take action and take control of the situation.
Good Luck!! xx
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