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writes:Well people are gonna think im a right bitch i just have to tell someone, im 17 years old, and having an afair with a man who has a gf and little boy! i feel really sick about it but i didnt know until about a week ago, i really liked this man but hes 28 years old is this too old? he's the nicest person ive met he does anything for me , he said to me hes gonna leave his gf for me, but i feel total bad as he has a little boy aswell, i really didnt know about this until not that long ago, but i think if he left his gf for me , whos too say he wouldnt do it to me?all i wanna know as if i should go ahead and let him leave his gf or be the better one and walk away!please help me , ive never told anyone yet x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): Hi. Just walk away while you can and be thankful you were only the other woman and not his gf or child. He doesnt sound very nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for the amazing adivse :)
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reader, devastated2008  +, writes (15 September 2009):
 Yes, please do be the better person and walk away. He is definitely high risk bf material. He's lied to you already... what right did he have to entangle you in his mess? Even if he never outright lied... he withheld valuable information that you had a right to know, not to mention what he's willing to do to his actual gf.I'm sorry but I don't think what he has done to you and his gf is "nice" at all.(I don't think you are a "bitch"; I think you were decieved. And I am glad that you are thinking of his gf and child... many women only see their own "happiness" and justify anything to get it.)Good luck... I know its tough, but better a little hurt now than a really big one later.
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