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Should I just take a chance and hope he doesn't cheat on me?

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Question - (13 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *x-Ellie-xX writes:

Hey everyone!

I recently began a relationship with someone. My last relationship involved a lot of deceit on his part, and from that I find trusting people difficult. I recently discovered my boyfriend cheated on his last girlfriend. Is that something I should worry about? It seems to me that if he's capable of cheating, he could easily do it again. I fall for people easily and I'm worried if I begin to like him more, it will be more hurtful if he does cheat on me. Should I just take a chance and hope he doesnt cheat on me? I've tried to explain how I'm feeling but I'm finding it difficult to put into words without sounding like a crazy controlling girlfriend! Any advice is appreciated :)

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A female reader, mthm616 United States +, writes (14 August 2011):

Cheating is never right!

However, I can tell you that I personally did cheat on an ex in the past. I didn't have a good reason for it, and I regret it a lot.

I am now married, and have been with this person for 4+ years. I have never even CONSIDERED cheating. So, I can tell you from experience, "once a cheater, always a cheater" is not ALWAYS true.

Good luck!

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A female reader, Aunty Susie Australia +, writes (14 August 2011):

Aunty Susie agony auntPast behaviour will often be an indicator for future behaviour. For me personally, I wouldn't get close to him. Because really, what possible reason/excuse could there have been for his cheating on a girlfriend? It's not something that happens by accident. You could take the chance, but I wouldn't until you've had a conversation about your concerns.

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