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writes:Hi guys, basically I am 16, 17 in 24 days (i'm not counting down or anything haha) and there's this guy that i met in about january last year who is from the school opposite mine. We had a bit of a thing going on, nothing happened between us, just lots of texting and flirting. And then he said he liked me, and i kind of got scared off a bit (i don't know why because i liked him and yeah) and then we just stopped talking. The other day i saw him outside school again and we smiled at each other and he just stood there staring, and i just didn't say anything i didn't know to do, but now i wish i said something. Do i start talking to him again, even though i don't know if i even like him any more? what do i say? i know i'm being really stupid and everything about this, but i'm not good at it :/ thanks for your help in advance x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 December 2012):
 He will more than likely be curious as to why you have just messaged him out of the blue, but there is no harm in sending him a message to say hello and ask him how he has been. If he asks why you are sending him a message now then just be honest with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you both very much for your help! just out of interest, if i text him is that okay to just do that, we haven't spoken since april, is it normal to just pop out of the blue and say hi? sorry, and thanks again for your help
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 December 2012):
I guess you lack some confidence and self esteem, it is quite normal to get scared when someone tells you they like you and you are not sure what to do or say. My guess is you have never experienced something like this, so you are unsure how to act. It is totally normal and nothing wrong with that. You regret not saying anything to him, this tells me you want to start talking to him again and see what happens but you are holding back because you are unsure of yourself or what you should do or say. If you really want to talk to him again then just give him a text message and ask him how he has been, simple as that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2012): Nobody is forcing you to, and its not necessary either just because you seen each other and smiled (you could put that down to being polite). If you did get on talking terms again, just be sure you both know where you stand with each other so there's no mixed messages. Sometimes a friendship or general talking terms is difficult in situations like this after there's been feelings involved.
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