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writes:Im 21 single but have quite a few male friends who i adore but never found any of them attractive. Until recently i have really fallen for this one perticular guy. Hes 26 got a job but lives with parents and i know he has taken a few drugs in his time. A few weeks ago we got very drunk and slept together after he told me he only want to be mates and he doesnt want anyone after coming out of a 6 year relationship. I was fine after coming out of a relationship myself but i still had a soft spot for him. Last night the same thing happened we ended up having a fantastic night together and he was saying things to me like "i need to sort my life out and he wants to do that with me!" i really like this guy but i don't know if it was just drink talking or if he meant it. I cant stop thinking about him ive never felt like this for anyone before i don't know what to do???? Do i just go with the flow and if something will happen then just let it??? I'm so confused.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 Hi,
If you are happy with meeting up for sex then fine, you both service a need.
But it looks like you want more, whereas he doesnt, so if you find that you are becoming attached you will end up extremely disappointed.
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (18 November 2007):
 Hi confused. Id advise going with the flow. though be aware he has made it clear he doesnt want anything serious. so dont get serious ok. have some fun and if something devlopes later then great, but dont push for any commitment as I doubt you will get any.
Take care, and have fun xxx
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