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writes:my boyfriend saw 2 of his ex-girlfriends this week, randomly. which didn't bother me. but 2 gays after he saw them, we were having phone sex because he goes out of town for work. and he was getting into it and he almost said their names twice. he said he was sorry and that it was a accident. i was upset and hung up. he now feels like i should get over it. should i?and what would u do?am i wrong for feeling like its weird that he said that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): I will quote the movie "Clerks"
"Randal Graves: People say crazy sh-- during sex. One time I called this girl "Mom." "
People say crazy things. They were brought up in his mind from the past again, so its fresh in the brain.
I wouldn't stress out about it too much.
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (7 October 2009):
 Yeah, in this particular case I think you may have over reacted, because you did say the he recently bumped into both of them. Now, if this repeats and becomes a pattern, then I would start to become concerned. But just the one time I don't think means anything more than that seeing them recently, stirred memories of them in his mind, and his mind is mixing up memories of his different girlfriends. In other words, he didn't mean anything by it. But if it repeats, maybe then ask him if there is anything currently going on between him and exgirlfriends.
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reader, littlenicky  +, writes (7 October 2009):
 i think you should try and get over it but not until you ask him why he mentioned them names? if that answer is ok with you and doesnt sound dodgy then just forget it and just apologise for taking it seriously, you just didnt imagine him calling out anyone elses names. just be careful next time and watch out for dodgy body signals and secretiveness. if this happens be weiry and ask questions.
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