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writes:well me and this guy have been friends for like ever! nothing sexual at all but we decided that maybe it would be fun to do. and he ahs liked me for awhile now and i have liked him but he left for college in august and its been hard ever since cause we hardly ever talk and the only time we ever get to do it is when he comes back home for the weekend. i didnt think i would ever fall as hard as i did.but i really like him. and we kinda had the talk about dating and everything but the thing is, is that i feel like theres something growing between us and not good. i wanna talk to him about it and i dont want him just to use for sex and stuff like that i actually want to have a relationship with him. but im not sure what our other guy friends would say about the whole orl deal. cause the who took my virginty is his bestfriend but that was like 4 yrs. ago and i was in love with him[his bestfriend]andme and our other really good friend had a thing once or twice. and i really liked him.so i guess what im tring to ask is what and i suppose to do about him?us? Reply to this Question
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reader, littlenicky  +, writes (7 October 2009):
 i think the best thing to do is ask him if hes serious about your relationship. if he is great carry on doing what your doing, try and go up and see him as much as you can. if not then thats ashame as you seem so set on him try and understand the circumstances you both have and if itll work and if your the right couple. im sure if you just talk to him about it everything will be resolved. im sure you might be feeling a bit scared as you dont know what hes going to say but your better off knowing the truth if its a good or a bad thing. if its bad then at least you wont be getting strung along for sex, and if its a good thing all the best to you, try and have fun while your young enjoy life and take care, i hope you get what you want. tc xx
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