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I have stopped talking to my lover but I miss him, I'm confused!

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Question - (11 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2009)
A female India age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I MARRIED WITH 2 KIDS, some emptiness was there in my life so i involve with a person who also in same situation like mine..we are friends from last 8yrs. we had a good time but now im feeling like he is changed but he denied .i stop talking to him . but he is trying to contact me .what should i do some time i miss him .but i m confused what to do help me out ...we are in same town.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009):

Please - please - get rid of that guy ! There is no substitute for a husband ! You had a relationship with that guy - fine ! It was nice till it lasted. No use dragging it too much. Such relationships mostly have a nasty end. If you have ended it from your side peacefully - THEN REMAIN ADAMANT.

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A male reader, BillyS United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2009):

You should never have done this in the first place, be true to the person you are married to is very important in my opinion and you at least owe your husband the truth. think you should have spiced things up with the husband, however you are now in this situation and there is only 1 way out you need to decide whether or not you want the husband or the lover, either way the TRUTH needs to be told, its the only way forward.

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