A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've become really close to this guy over the summer. We are casually dating. We're always communicating and he's a really nice guy. I'm going back to uni on monday and he hasn't tried to see me or even seem bothered.. He seems interested otherwise but he hasn't really said much about the fact I'm leaving except tonight... He was talking about how much of a shame it is cos he wanted to watch a particular movie with me... Does that mean he's not bothered or...? Kinda sounds like he won't even be visiting.. I know the weekend is coming but he's working and this week he slowed down a little, calling wise... Am I overracting or should I just cut my loses? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (11 September 2015):
 "Hey, as you know I'm leaving Monday, you haven't mentioned it at all. I was wondering what you were thinking about that, if you had any comment at all?"
Just ask him. If you are becoming really close, wouldn't it make sense to be clear about things rather than assume them?
Good luck with uni!
A
male
reader, Denizen +, writes (11 September 2015):
 If you are at uni' and he is somewhere else it's not a great way to build a relationship.
I think that while you are at uni' you should keep all your options open. It's a great time to have fun, and not try to cultivate a distant relationship that hasn't even got going.
...............................
|
