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writes:I am seeing this guy i really likei saw him last night, he was fine with me, all chattybut when i got on MSN he ignored me, so i asked him what was wronghe said that i speak to him alot on msn but when i see him in real life, i am all shy and quiet. He thinks that this is because of all the kissing we do. But that is not why.He wants me to be louder,i am a loud person but i think i am myself around him. Am i not good enough for him?does he not like me for who i am?he thinks that it is because i am 13 and he is 15please help!!should i let him rule me and keep him happy?
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reader, hello2580 +, writes (27 October 2007):
tell him ur being shy and just need som time
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Just be yourself, if he doesnt like that then tough, move on and find someone who loves you for you. Dont try to be someone that you are not.
take care
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reader, loriegirl  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Well, it seems that youre abit like me, I met my boyfriend online also, and were very happy. At first i was very shy and quiet when we were together. But when we e-mailed each other or IM I seemed to express myself a whole lot better. You can express your self so much better in writing, Just like were doing now. There is no holding back in writing what you think or feel. I think Its the face to face thing, You are not sure what he would think, You get nervous, You feel uncomfortable, I mean come on, You hardly know eachother! I think its normal, and as time passes, you will feel more and more comfortable. Just let him know this, and tell him that you need some time to adjust to the whole thing. Im sure that Later he wont be able to shut you up! :)
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
when you are in a relationship communication is very important,i do not understand why he wants you to shout louder,if some one is trying to change you, and do not forget your only 13 (you are already having a lot of changes going on in your life)you do not need this guy shaping your life for his own purpose, you are the perfect person for your age, and do not need any one else trying to change you, maybe it is time to change this guy, and find some who is more in tune with your needs,and feelings.
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