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writes:I met this guy a few years ago and we have a lot of mutual acquaintances. We never really hung out but occasionally exchanged a few texts. A few months ago we'd arranged to meet up and it was planned a few weeks in advance because we go to different colleges. I was visiting his college because I was visiting a friend who goes there too, but when it came to meeting up he said he was too busy and it didn't happen. We're both home from college now and I kept seeing him around but neither of us would approach each other. About a week ago I saw him again and because we'd both had a few drinks I went over and talked to him and we talked really easily. I suggested hanging out and he seemed enthusiastic and texted me later that night saying I should come to this club he was going to but I couldn't because it was my friends birthday. I texted him the next day saying it was nice to see him and we texted a few more times but then he just didn't reply. I saw him again last night when out with friends but he's always in a big group and I find it too intimidating approaching him, especially as I don't know if he's interested, but I'd really like to see him on a one to one basis!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2011): Texting does not take too much effort so I would think he is not interested. Unless he did not receive your message and is unaware that you tried contacting him, move on.
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