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anonymous
writes:I have been seeing a guy for over two years now and we see one and other about four times a week with him stopping over every weekend at my place. In between that he very rarely phones or texts me and if I send him a text he will either ignore it or reply a couple of days later. I have tried to be objective about this as we are both relatively busy people but my friends seem to have the opposite with ther long term boyfriends where they are called ever day along with text messaging and they are telling me that he can't really think that much about me if he cant be bothered to keep in touch with me inbetween meetings.I have also never met any of his friends or family whereby we socialise regularly with mine and he has met my family on several occasions. There is an age difference between us (I am ten years older) although he has not aged very well which make us look similar ages when we are togetherMy daughter says that he is just using me as he eats and sleeps at my place and as he has no car I also put all the petrol in the car.Should I insist on meeting his friends and family to see where I actually stand or just accept the situation as it is.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (15 June 2007):
 I wouldn't go as far as to say he's married but I agree with the part where you should look in to his background as it sounds like there is something he isn't telling you.
I would insist on seeing his family and see what he says.
Be papared for finding out something you may not want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): from what you say i believe he is married,do some research bout his back ground
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