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I'm not sure about marrying, she's my first love...

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Question - (15 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2007)
A female age 36-40, *mirhosein writes:

Dear friends there.

I'm 19 and I have a girlfriend, we're madly in love, it's now 1 and a half years. The problem is that she's 2 years older than me, and so in 3-4 years she would marry. By that time i will be too young and actually do not want to marry then, and I'm not quite sure about marrying at all. She once told me that she cares about getting married. I have a bad feeling to thing that every thing is going to end up in a few years, what can i do? I, personally think, that i'm mature enough in my life, but should i trust my first love in this age? I have never experienced any other girl. (we had never had sex, just kissed so many times)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007):

You owe it to her to be honest. Tell her how you feel about marriage right now (ie. that you're unsure). Your feelings might change in 3-4 years time and you might come around to the idea so tell her that.

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A female reader, amirhosein  +, writes (15 June 2007):

amirhosein is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I don't know why, that thing said I'm female? :-/ I'm a boy actually! Perhaps, a mistake of mine, in registration! :p

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