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writes:Hi! So basically I met a guy online and we talked. Im 16 and he said he was 18 and we just talked in a friendly way, no "sexting" or anything. Then we started to chat on Yahoo and I really Sartre to grow fond of him. He even said he loves me. I thought he was joking or crazy but we still talked. Then he sent me a pic and I sent him one too. But he was insistent that he loved me, and I went along with it. It's almost six months now and we talk almost everyday, but I think that he's...not real? How do I explain? He's too good. Seriously. I trust him a lot but I don't trust him. Like I actually think up embarrassing scenarios where this is all a big joke and that's not even the most extreme thought I've had. But I can't stop talking to him. What should I do? I live in the US and he's English. Please tell me if I should forget it and ignore him or encourage him? What to do???? Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Nephertite  +, writes (4 June 2012):
 I was in that sort of a relationship once. Just could not stop talking to the guy. He was really sweet and I actualyl trusted him. The key to this is to go with your intincts. It's never wrong. if they are telling you to NOT trust him, then there must be a reason. If you guys want to meet, then tell him to come over. Never in any curcumstance should you be the one to go over. Meet him with another girlfriend and see if how she feels about his "vibes". Try web camming if you can. See what kind of feelings youc an get from him. Just ALWAYS keep yourself in check. Because if you fall too hard and he's just a player, you will be the one ot get hurt in the end. This one other guy I talked to for long.. he was SO GOOD, but I felt it was all a lie. And true enough his gf emails me and tells me to back off. I was shocked. But such is life and online dating. Jsut don't get too into it unless you are sure. :) good luck and if he loves you he should not let it end with jsut saying it. He should show it to u. You'll know if it's right.
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