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*agle101
writes:I feel guilty about something, but I don't know why I do. I havent done anything. The problem is if I do this "something" it should make me feel better but this one person will be hurt. One of my teachers told me to think about the repercussions. But when I asked my friends they said go for it and don't even worry about that one person. I don't know what to do! What's even worse is that this person asked ME if there was anything wrong, well yeah there was but I couldn't tell him. Help!!
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reader, eagle101 +, writes (19 December 2010):
eagle101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe didn't upset me, also the other day I gave him a cupcake and we ended up talking for about 30 minuets. We talked about something I liked, it turns out he's a big nerd like me. And I DID NOT follow through on my discision to hurt him.
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reader, sandiie  +, writes (16 December 2010):
hurting someone to make yourself feel good never works in the begining it feels ok but after it does not pays of cause sometimes in the end you might end up huring yourself........you need yo be the more mature person and even though certain things hurts you ............you handle itas the bigger person
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): Hurting someone else will not make you feel better and that isn't the way to go.
What did this person do that was so terrible? If they asked you if you were ok, maybe they haven't even realised they've upset you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 December 2010):
Never hurt anyone else just so you can feel better. Because it will come back to you at some point.
Imagine if you hurt this guy. It will then get around that you're uncaring, and perhaps a bit selfish in that you don't care about anyone's feelings. Then no guy will want you at all, and you'll look bad. And believe me, that's the sort of reputation that will follow you. I'm 23, and there are girls even now that I know who had reputations when they were young teenagers that still affect them. This sort of thing doesn't go away.
Your friends are immature, and don't yet understand the world. Your teacher does, and the teacher is the one you should listen to.
Don't hurt him. He might hurt you back, or everyone might hurt you back.
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