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*im Shaddix !
writes:Hey guys im kinda freaking out cuz i want to have sex with this guy, im 13 and im still a virgin but really love him and he's so sexy lol, so GUYS should i give hima blowjob first? )give me advice to give a nice blowjob lol) and wat do guys like in their first time?thx 3 !
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Honey it is illegal for this young man to have sex with you, he can get into serious trouble and will be put on a sex offenders register. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO HAVE THAT ON YOUR CONSCIENCE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
You are physically and emotionally immature to have sex at your age, as your body is not ready for such practices and can lead to cervical cancer in later years. Ok so this guy is hot, he has no right to ask a minor like yourself to have sex with him. To me he is a paodophile on the make, so honey please steer clear of this guy. We are not preaching to you, we just want what is best for you.
Leave having sex for a few years, until it is legal and that you are physically and emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship of this calibre. By all means date a guy of you own age, but I seriously think this guy is far too old for you. And even if you do go ahead whatever us Aunts say, come what may. He will probably drop you like a hot brick once he has got what he wants from you. Please beware.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (28 July 2008):
 I found an article you should seriously consider. The following is the link. Doc
http://www.massgeneral.org/children/adolescenthealth/articles/aa_virginity.aspx
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (28 July 2008):
At your age everyone who is capable of sex is too old for you.
You still have years of your childhood ahead of you. Are you willing to throw it all away for something you will always be able to look forward to?
I hope not.
Your childhood is something you can always cherish. It should not be something you wish you had taken advantage of.
And believe me, once you start down the road of ADULT behaviors you can NEVER get your childhood back.
Please, please for your sake wait on sex.
For one thing all it takes is one accident and in nine months you could be changing diapers and feeding a baby or having to give it away to an uncertain life ahead.
This in itself could do you untold mental harm.
This along with knowing how relationships go at your age tells me that this guy could consider you the flavor of the month but tell you all the things you want to hear.
Also, if he does have sex with you and it is found out he can most certainly be put in jail for statuatory rape.
Are you really ready to take on all this responsibility yet? Doc
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reader, Kim Shaddix ! +, writes (28 July 2008):
Kim Shaddix ! is verified as being by the original poster of the question He's 19 !!!!!!!!! i dont think he's too old for me.......
what do y'all think????
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): "He's so sexy." This tells us all you're, well, too immature to be having sex. This is no reason to lose your virginity to a person, because they're attractive! We all reckon our partners are attractive. Please honey, don't make a big mistake, I tell you this from experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): what are the odds he is going to be 'the one' forever..?
save something that special for someone who is just as special.
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reader, minex +, writes (5 May 2008):
i started being sexualy active when i was 12, it was a bad decision, WAIT! im 15 now, i urge you, im not going to pretend to be a saint, im not exatly a virgin. but losing it to early was horrible! your maybe ok for a blow job, but really, dont even think about sex yet. i know this is probably considered bad advice from a "responsible elder" but seriously.
dont think about sex
not just yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): your to young wait a few years, find a guy who cares about you and then when you feel ready do it
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): sweetie youre really young. You should be thinking about school not guys. And just because a guy is sexy doesn't mean you should give it up that quick. At thirteen you think almost any guy is hot cute or sexy.
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reader, Samhamss +, writes (5 May 2008):
ok. speaking from a guy's perspective, If you're that young and he seems interested in... that stuff... Well I would strongly advise leaving such a relationship, even if you think it's love, it really isn't. You will probably regret such an action in the long run. Relationships based upon sex are probably some of the least fulfilling in my opinion.
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (4 May 2008):
 You are extremely young to be doing sexual things. You're only 13! Anything you do now you may regret that you hadn't waited longer. You have a lot of time, you don't have to think about sex and blowjobs right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008): if you are asking that there is probably a big part of you that knows you are not ready. you should not take the big step with someone who you just think is sexy. this is something you will remember for the rest of your life. and as for the bj (why does the girl have to give oral sex first?) i would not.
im 18 now, and lost it when i just turned 16, i am still with the same guy. i would at least wait until that age. if your guy is much older than you...then that is just another reason to wait. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): i know exactly how u feel im 14 and i was in the same situation last year. im not ganna tel u not to do it cuz i ko no matter wat i say ur still probly ganna do it lol
okay soo i gav this kid a bj and he said he wouldnt tell anyone but the next day at school i was known as the school whoroe and he completly ignord me but now hes asking me for sex. I asked him y he wont date me and he said "cuz i think datings gay" lol the truth of the matter is that im a booty call and thats exactly wat ull be. just make sure that hes ur bf and make sure u guys r serious cuz u dont just do thos kinds of things 4 the hell of it and if he presures u into doen anything girl dump his as and find a sexyer guy to giv ur "V" away to lol cuz thats somthing special and try and think about how heilll think of u after he might think ur a whoroe WICH ur NOT but from past exparients ya might wanna stay pure cuz in the long run these kinds of things never work out 4 the girl
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reader, Misti Hdz +, writes (3 May 2008):
 okay first of all you are so young. I lost my virginity at 13 and I couldn't get it back, and it wasn't special at all. Now I am 24 and I have learned over the years that at 13 you are not in love. I know you don't want to hear that but trust me, you may feel like you do, and everyday he is all that you think about, and you couldn't see yourself without him, but unless you have had your heart trampelled on and crushed into small pieces at least once, you don't know true love. When I was 16 I met this guy who I still think about at times. I would have done anything for him. He cheated on me, and I didn't care, just as long as he enjoyed it because I "loved" him so much, but it took him breaking my heart to know what true love realy is. It wasn't him, and no one could have told me that then, cause I would have argued with them to the end. But now I am 24 and truly in love with my husband.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): Hunny, Before you start thinking about giving anyone a BJ...You should focus your energy on him earning your repect. You're 13 now so it all seems 'exciting' but trust me, someday you'll look back and have to remember how you lost your virginity and who it was with. Just make sure it's under the right circumstances and someone really special to you emotionally, not just 'sexy' lol. You don't want to be just a 'flavour of the week" you want to make an impression so he'll have more respect for you too.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 ahhh no luv your too young to have sex..u just turned a teen lol..so i think u should step back a bit hun..its fine to date guys have fun,flirt around but sex nah nah..not this early..u wouldnt want to hurry with sex and then regret later..as far as i see it u should tone it done a bit ok!!!enjoy teen life..
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