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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating a guy for two months now. We are going well and he is recently pestering me for penetrative sex. We have played before but I keep turning him down for full on sex. He is annoyed and says that our relationship has progressed to the stage where if we don't have full on sex, then our relationship will deteriorate. He constantly says he loves me and that he is committed, but I think that two months isn't long enough. It doesn't help that I am not keen on him in a sexual way, but I am also scared to become a non-virgin... Do I go for it and test our relationship? Or let him go and find someone else when I am actually ready? Does he really mean what he says?This is my first proper relationship with a guy and I don't want it to leave bad memories, plus I like him enough (in other ways) to want it to work...Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): You need to leave him. He doesn't respect your feelings, and if you have sex with him now, you'll totally regret it.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 He's saying anything he can to get sex, this is a big red flag in my book. Don't do anything you don't feel ready for. He honestly doesn't sound like a very good guy in my book. A good guy wouldn't be pressuring you. 2 months may seem like an eternity to him because he's used to sex after 4 dates, but it really isn't that long. I think you should go with your gut, not what he's saying.
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